I must say Thursday class was Epic! (yes Nicolas I’m
borrowing your catch phrase J)
Let me start by saying that Tuesday Vera fundraising
event was incredible and I would like to thank Professor Stein, Professor Reitz,
and Professor Waterston for setting up the event. I was in total awe of the spectacular
event that unfolded that evening. I would also like to thank Professor Waterston
who was able to make it to the event; we all wish you a speedy recovery. Additionally,
thank you to all the mentors, Vera alumni and the new upcoming class who were
able to attend. I would also like to congratulate the recipient of this year “Mentor
of the Year” award to Ms. White. As the event unfolded, I had a
feeling of nostalgia because of the change of perspective. When I attended the
event last year, I was excited as a newly accepted student; the speeches were
passionate and incredible with Timothy Fowler giving a riveting speech
alongside the rest of the Vera class. After they spoke, maybe I was the only
one but the thoughts that were running through my mind were how I am going to
live up to that. Throughout the year, I feel we all lived to the expectations
that the last class has left us. I believe that next year’s class will do the
same and thereafter. Only this time our perspective is switched to alumnus.
Onwards to Thursday lesson, that class was such a great experience for
me, and I am sure my peers can agree. We did two readings one on Kill
the Man by Mary Wings and Lawns by Mona Simpson. We first started
with the poem Metaphors by Sylvia Path.
An occurring
theme that came from each of these stories was the lack of empowerment by each
of the victims and the lack of control to solve their respective problems. In
the poem “Metaphors”, throughout the poem the women had no control over the
situation that she was there for the purpose of recreation. When asked how to
describe the woman in the poem, Andre used the word “subjugated,” while
Professor Stein used the word “powerless.” In Lawns, Jenny finds
herself in a similar situation;
however she was being sexually abused by her father.
One
of my questions for the class relates
to our discussion of Lawns. Professor Stein explains that everything is
paradoxical, human behavior is similar. Do you believe this is an occurring theme
in the stories? Another question I have based off the Lawns and Kill
the Man reading is, do you believe that the victims are being demanded
to change is an effective mechanism to fighting back? For example, Jenny makes
the decision to tell her mom only after the dad visit.
In the Lawns’ reading, Professor Stein made
a response that in my mind was very important; in the story, Jenny believed
that she was in control of the relationship between herself and her dad. Professor Stein explains that the victim need
to believe that they have some form of control, which would allow the creation
of a new perspective that, is faulted. What do you think of Professor Stein
comment do you believe that relates to victims of today?